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You’re Not a Loser If You Don’t Have Any Friends.

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There’s an epidemic attacking this generation.

I’m sure of it. And not just because I feel like it’s personally attacking me as well, but because it’s attacking my clients. My gorgeous, high-functioning, creative, intelligent, and successful clients. I mean these are girls who PAY PRECIOUS MONIES to talk to someone about their goals, dreams, and setbacks. These girls have their shit together, ya know? Read More

Five Steps For Dealing With Failure

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Dealing with failure is one of life’s lovely inevitabilities.

No matter what you do, at some point in time you will have to face the humiliating nature of metaphorically falling flat on your face. Ain’t life grand?

Some of us have become so terrified of failure that we actually let it dictate our lives. We don’t try new things. We procrastinate hoping the opportunity will expire. We stay stagnant to avoid any risk. Read More

Five Things to Focus On During Your Twenties

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When I first heard Meg Jay’s Ted Talk “Why 30 is not the new 20” – I finally felt validated.

I was in my early twenties and trying to balance the pressure of “not taking life too seriously” with my own internal expectations. I felt like I was back in high school when the cool thing to do was to not care about your life or direction. (Yes, I was a nerd.) But that was not sitting well with me. I couldn’t stand there and let my life pass me by when I knew I wanted to focus on something. Read More

How to Tell When It’s Time to Phase Out a Friendship

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Pro tip: Not all friendships are meant to last.


I talk about this a lot in my blogs, with my clients, and in life in general. I am aware that I sound like a broken record. You are who your friends are. In fact, according to Jim Rohn (someone way smarter than me), we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.

See! I’m not the only one who preaches about this stuff. Read More

How to Find Your Inner Self

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Holy moly….Who in the world am I??? 

It’s a realization all of us have had at some point or another: we don’t really know ourselves. 

But how did this happen? How in the hell did we grace this world for 20+ years and we don’t even know how we feel about political issues or contemporary art or rap music?! Sometimes we can’t even figure out if we like the latest style trends. It’s madness! Seriously! HOW DID WE GET HERE? Read More

Five Struggles of Adulting

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Can we please talk about the struggles of adulting.


Otherwise known as, the place where responsibilities are endless and the struggle is most definitely real. Ughhh how did we even end up here?! It seems like just yesterday we were graduating college and smiling from ear to ear over the fact that we FINALLY had money and freedom! Our eyes were set on our bright future and our hearts were thankful we made it through the “toughest time of our life” (lol). Plus, we could celebrate the culmination of our academic career with parties and pizza and champagne! Read More

How To Know if You’re Having a Quarter Life Crisis

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Adulting is hard. So is having a quarter life crisis.

We all know this. We graduate from college, our formula for success ends, and we have to scramble to figure it out for ourselves. Within a few weeks we’re expected to know how to cook, pay bills, get up early every morning, hold ourselves accountable, exercise, hold down a job, save money, and maintain healthy social relations. Read More

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

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So we have a confession to make.

Lots and lots and LOTS of times we have written advice blogs about how to be a freaking fabulous human being…and somewhere on the list is always “don’t compare yourself to others.” Which is like, awesome, if we told you how to do that. Whoops! Kind of annoying. Sorry ’bout dat. But to make up for it, we’ve written you an even more fabulous blog about how to actually follow through! So follow these few steps to learn how to stop comparing yourself to others, and be on your way to focusing on YOU….and ONLY YOU.

Because you’re so dang cute.

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