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How to Know When It’s Time to End a Relationship

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It’s a question in life that you never REALLY want to answer:

When is it time to end a relationship?


Things build up. Something feels off. The magic has faded. Or maybe you’re just not happy anymore. Whatever it is that’s causing this burning question to rise to the top – it’s not going away. So you have to figure out if this skepticism is permanent, or just a phase. Tough call. Read More

How to Take Advantage of Being Single

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Recently, our very own Coach Britt got engaged. Instead of gushing about her exciting life ahead, she wanted to reflect on how she got here, and share her wisdom with others. This is her account of how she took advantage of being single.

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I loved being single.

As an engaged woman, that probably isn’t something anyone expects to hear from me. I always wanted a real relationship, of course. I knew there was someone out there who I would want to spend most of my free time with. But I didn’t want to spend my whole life waiting. Limbo doesn’t suit me.

I spent about five years being single prior to meeting my fiancé. So trust me, I really do understand the struggle of balancing where I was with where I wanted to be. Read More

Dear Blush: Should I Move On?

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Dear Blush,

My boyfriend broke up with me a day before our six month anniversary. He said he wanted to break up early but since I was suffering he felt bad and stayed. He lost his feelings for me already for a couple of weeks. We always told each other forever and always and then he said there was no forever and always. He asked people in our school if we should break up. He even told me it would be nice if I lost some pounds. I can’t stop crying it hurts so much. What am I supposed to do? Read More

How to Get Over a Breakup

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Feeling rejected sucks. But knowing how to get over a break up and make it stick might be even worse.

It doesn’t matter if you were dumped, you did the dumping, or the dumping just kind of happened—it still feels like someone took a dump all over you. One of our all time favorite books EVER, It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken: The Smart Girl’s Break-Up Buddy by Greg Behrendt, perfectly outlines how all of us can swiftly get past those awful post breakup feelings. We seriously have girls come to us everyday asking how to get over their most recent breakup, and although every situation is definitely different…there seems to be a method to this madness. So, you can grab the book, or you can read our take on it here! Read More

6 Tips for Moms Raising Teen Daughters

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This Mother’s Day, Blush wants to give you a bouquet of cyber hugs and kisses, some of our most valuable information for free, and a surprise waiting for you after you finish reading! It’s our gift to you.

We are an all female team of life coaches who work with teen girls across the globe. We love working with our girls, and we  love it even more when moms jump in, too! Mother-daughter relationships are incredibly important for teen girls’ self-esteem, so we want to do everything to help strengthen these bonds. Typically, we help via life coaching, but today, we have some tips written out for every mom! (We are SURE some of you are wondering what life coaching even is, so before we get to the tips…)

What is life coaching? At Blush, life coaching is a creative process that inspires girls to achieve their full potential. We teach life skills, set goals, and motivate for the future. Blush understands her. We don’t label, critique, or make her feel crazy. Teen life coaching is the new cutting-edge way to help teens get a head start on life. And Blush makes it easy and affordable by connecting with teens on their home turf: online.  Personal growth is hot, diagnosis is not!

Without further ado, here is your Mother’s Day gift from Blush!

Here are some tips for you moms out there raising teen daughters.

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What to Dodge When Dating (And Other Deal Breakers)

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If you’re stuck in a crappy relationship and you aren’t sure why, we may have the answer.

Red flags are common in crumbling relationships, but sometimes we’re too busy trying to make things work that we don’t bother to duck and cover. Some of us out there might have suffered a shocking breakup, and really aren’t sure why. Others of us are determined to make sure we get it right next time. No matter our experiences, all of us can benefit from awareness, and Blush wants to help. So girl, when you see these 5 red flags, you better dodge ’em. Or else. Read More

Your Breakup To-Do List: Part II

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 Your Breakup To-Do List Part II

By now we hope you have tackled those first seven to do items, because we are serving up a few more for you right now. Here is the second half of your breakup to do list—and if you follow along, you’ll be over them in no time!

8. Find a guy in your life that you trust

…And listen to him when he says your ex wasn’t good enough. He’s telling you the truth.

These guys will be painfully honest, and when they aren’t envious, they tend to be good judges of character. Boys know the game, and they can recognize it when they see it. Please listen to them when they tell you he sucks. He does. He broke your heart, and you shouldn’t let him have his cake and eat it too. Especially on Valentine’s Day. That cake is YOURS girlfriend. All. Yours.

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Your Breakup To-Do List: Part I

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 Your Breakup To-Do List Part I.


Breakups suck. It doesn’t matter if it lasted two weeks or two years – any form of rejection is enough to make us realize we don’t want to feel it again. Not to mention, getting over the sting is really tough, especially by yourself. That’s why the Blush coaches have put together your official breakup to-do list to get you out of this rut. An ex should NEVER take away your light – so let’s get you back to feeling like yourself again.


Here is your *official* breakup to-do list!

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