Why Arguing in Relationships Isn’t All That Bad

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We’re going to come out and say it: arguing relationships isn’t all that bad.



But still, we hear “Do we fight too much?” on a daily basis. Seriously – we hear it a lot. It’s the age old question that we think holds the answer to whether or not our current relationship is “the one.” While some relationships are definitely too dramatic to survive an I-35 road trip, others are healthy as a horse even with lots of squabbles. I mean without arguments, life would be kind of boring. OH ADMIT IT YOU KNOW IT’S TRUE.

PS–Relationships completely devoid of tiffs can also be red flags for apathy. Ew. So how can arguing in relationships actually be….good? Blush has the answer (and maaaaaaybe a few pointers…) as to why arguing relationships isn’t that bad. Read More

Advice for the First Date

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Dates are anxiety-provoking to say the least. So we have the best advice for the first date so you can stay calm.


:::whimsical date night melody:::


It’s Friday, 8 pm. Date night. It’s been awhile since you’ve been on a date…guys don’t really asks women out anymore. It’s weird, but at least tonight could be fun. Plus you haven’t been out-out in awhile. You look down at your sky high heels, and silently hope that the night will include lots of sitting. Lots. Why? Because you’ve been pacing around your living room for the last 30 minutes and your feet already hurt.

When you’re FA-LIPPING out about venturing into the dating scene, bear with us. Blush wants to make sure you feel ready and confident before any first date! We know they can be awkward and nerve-wracking, but Blush has your back. Whether it’s your first date or your fifth date, we have some things we want you to consider:

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Body Language for Dating

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Oh, summer love.


Tis the season for endless weddings, dates on dates, and fabulous flirting all through September and beyond. However, with dating, comes stress. Don’t even TRY to deny it because you talk to us about it every week. Therefore we wanted to introduce an interesting topic in dating that isn’t discussed that often at all. And–it’s for da girls AND da boyz.

We aren’t here to convince you that body language is the ONLY thing to look out for while dating–quite the contrary–but it’s kind of fun to talk about. So, since we’re playing, here are five tips to take note about dating with body language this summer.

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How to Make Your Relationship Last

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So you found your boo. Congrats! Now all you gotta do is make your relationship last.

And nowadays, it seems like that accomplishment is about as difficult as finding a Target swimsuit that wasn’t sized for a 10 year old. Kidding. Kind of. Point is it’s definitely exciting to know you found somebody you can stand to be around for more than five hours in a row. And we’re assuming, you’d like it to stay that way. In order to keep long term relationships alive and thriving, Blush has put together some tips to cultivate happy and healthy lasting relationships. We want to help make your relationship last, and this is how you do it.

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What to Dodge When Dating (And Other Deal Breakers)

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If you’re stuck in a crappy relationship and you aren’t sure why, we may have the answer.

Red flags are common in crumbling relationships, but sometimes we’re too busy trying to make things work that we don’t bother to duck and cover. Some of us out there might have suffered a shocking breakup, and really aren’t sure why. Others of us are determined to make sure we get it right next time. No matter our experiences, all of us can benefit from awareness, and Blush wants to help. So girl, when you see these 5 red flags, you better dodge ’em. Or else. Read More

How to Break the Marriage Norms

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How to Break the Marriage Norms


We all read that Huffpo piece.

You know, the one where the guy was like marriage isn’t for me, it’s really about you, and I totally tricked you into reading this, because you thought it was going to be all radical and stuff.”
Don’t worry, we read it too. But it got Blush thinking, what about the girl who we thought that article was intended for? The who girl actually doesn’t want to get married? Not everybody gets the wedding bug. Not every relationship feels the need to follow the traditional path. Maybe one day you want to get married, but just not right now. Whatever the case may be, Blush doesn’t care what you choose! We just want you to be happy. For all of you girls out there who aren’t quite sure marriage is your thang, this one’s for you. Read More

5 Things You Should Know About Guys

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Whether he’s your loving boyfriend or your sexy husband, we know he drives you crazy.


It’s ok, you can admit it. Blush knows that you love him to pieces and that’s why we can write about these things without angry backlash. So in the spirit of honesty, we put together a list of 5 things we wish SOMEBODY had told us before diving into serious relationships. If you’re single, you’ll be a much happier future girlfriend for reading this. If you’re attached, hehe.
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