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We’ve already gone over some important pointers on what makes a friendship unhealthy – but what about the opposite? It’s important to surround yourself not only with positive people, but also people who complement you and want what is best for you. It’s friendships that really help shape us into the strong and successful girls that we are. So, here are six qualities of a successful friendship that you should always be on the lookout for!
Even if they really aren’t that funny.
Good friends share the same quirky senses of humor. It’s what helps your bond stay so strong. Plus, laughing at your friend – even when the joke was a bit off key – is still always funny to you. She’s hilarious, you can’t help it! And overall, both of you want each other to be happy – and what’s better than getting a good laugh?
Friends don’t size each other up. There’s no racing to achieve the next milestone first, and there’s no disappointment when one friend falls behind. Instead, best friends cheer each other on no matter where they are in life. They celebrate when things go really well, and comfort each other when they aren’t. There is no twinge of excitement in one if the other trips along the way. They want to be successful together – so they strive to help each other out as much as possible.
There’s really no beating around the bush with best friends. There’s also no brutal honesty to the point of abuse. Instead, friends share their thoughts and feelings in a kind fashion as to be sensitive to their buddy’s feelings. If there’s a disagreement, they talk it out in person. They make sure to communicate as openly and honestly as possible, because they know that’s how real friendships last.
These friends aren’t the two-faced kind. If anyone bashes their friend, they’re ready to roll. Of course they aren’t blind to their bestie’s faults – we all have them – but it’s not cool for anyone else to point them out! Real friends stick up for each other in public, no matter who they’re with. They are each other’s ride or die, and that’s all there is to it.
Best friends have met each other’s families, significant others, and colleagues. They know all about each other’s jobs, and what stresses them out and why. When they tell a story, there is hardly any background information to explain, because they already know the context. They are invested. This is what makes these friendships so special – because both parties interests are aligned. They’re all in.
Best friends don’t judge each other. Instead, they validate each other. A best friend doesn’t cringe at a reckless mistake or an embarrassing story. That would be hurtful! Instead, they make sure their friend knows that whatever they’re going through, it’s okay. They’re not crazy. The world won’t end. It’s normal. This sort of friendship is our sanctuary – it’s where we go to feel safe. The world makes us feel like we’re crazy every day, but these types of friendships make us feel sane again.
Quirks and all. Best friends don’t wish their friend would stop doing this or start doing that – they just know that they are who they are, and they accept them completely. Nobody is perfect, and in fact, these types of friendships appreciate each other for their faults. It makes them human. It makes them interesting. And asking their friend to be anyone other than themselves simply isn’t nice. So friends must actively accept their friend on a daily basis in order to create a safe place for each other to just be.
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